Revamp mod Desync Thread - Revamp Expansion Mod (RVE) for Supreme Commander 2

So I installed version 2.0 of this mod and my friend did the same. When we tried to play together for the first time with the mod we got a desync warning shortly after a game start. We are actually able to play for about 4-5 min after that we get a sync error and we are forced to leave the game. We have never had such problem with SP2 before installing the mod and another thing we did aswell was changing the unitcap from 500 to 1000 in the game.prefabs file. we use SP2 mod manager and we have installed there the "Mod support minimod v7" and the "Revamp expansion mod 2 alpha 1". Both of us have the "Revamp expansion mod 2 alpha 1" enabled with a check, but we aren´t able to enable the "Mod support minimod v7" because when we try to enable it, it shows a conflict error and I don´t know if that has something to do with our desync problem. Help would be appreciated, thanks!