Is being gay a choice? Thread

Did you choose to be straight? IF I choose to be g@y you could easily change to being g@y right? Go for it, then come back and tell me its about choice.

I guess its my choice to fancy ugly people right? I guess I can choose everything, nothings hardcoded.

Well, i don't think it is really too much of a choice... Just one day, you begin checkin men (or women) out, and you can't help it too much... You CAN try to fight it, but prolly would not work... you could prolly attempt at being straight, but never truly be happy with it ya know? I think its just kinda how you are... Not nessicarily born with it, but when it comes, you probably can't resist it too well...

They had lesbians on dismissed(on mtv), theyre so cool, I need to get lesbian friends- so funny and outgoing.

no, ive seen programs where the guy said he has had plenty of girlfriends, but he is now gay :/

unless he was born with it but he didnt want to believe it dunno didnt watch it all.

- Edited By cHIs-wK On Tue 5th, Aug 2003 @ 6:10:15pm

Well like i said, i don't think you are really born with it, to say... I think maybe it can just kinda develop in time ya know?

Most likely

well, no offence intended here, but are there any openly gay ppl on this forum? Maybe we can get info from inside the mind of one...

Well lets see

dEaThMaStEr wrote: well, no offence intended here, but are there any openly gay ppl on this forum? Maybe we can get info from inside the mind of one...

Me. Believe me you dont choose.

I think that these guys who have a history of dating women who switch sides are either faking it, or were not aware of who they truly are until that moment when they 'came out'.

Not sure my friend will appreciate it, but he slept with woman until he was roughly 20 - he enjoyed relationships and so forth, first time he slept with a man "was like realising what sex was really like - it felt right".

Thanks for correcting the spelling azz0r

someone deleted your first post

post it again and ill put it back in...

- Edited By azz0r On Tue 5th, Aug 2003 @ 9:23:17pm

Na thats ok but thanks we pretty much covered this with gay marriage i was just bored at 2a.m today

yes, its a choice, you wake up one morning and just, boom, you wanna be gay.

*me shivers
just women for me.

I just asked beacuase my parents belive all people are straight so to be gay you choose

azz0r wrote: someone deleted your first post

post it again and ill put it back in...

I deleted it.

why

hey wait a minute, you cant delete threads

- Edited By cHIs-wK On Tue 5th, Aug 2003 @ 11:15:01pm

Yes I can.

Then why did you

Because I wanted to, why else?

GET BACK TO THE TOPIC GODDAMNIT, anyway i don't think its like *boom* ur straight, and then *boom* ur gay i think it takes time, but i'm probably wrong:S

You guys are so gullible. I bet you think thats how you spell gullable

Anyway, its not choice, it'd be mentally retarded to think its a choice. You dont choose attraction > sexuality.

I think azz0r is sexy and Brad Pitt is sexy, and sometimes I want to squeeze some guys' arms or chest if they're built to see what it feels like. Sometimes I think that means I'm gay, but I know for a fact that I still love women. So maybe I'm bisexual? I don't know, to be honest...but I don't worry about it. Who gives a damn which way you swing? We're all the same, just do what makes you feel good.