Backstabbing. Thread

Oh great, im in a love triangle now. I guess i should explain. I was at my best friends house, and i called the girl i loved. Me and my friend were joking around. I told her to talk to him. They know each other from school, we all do right? so anyway, he ends up liking her because he has a chance with her. I thought he was joking. Its not freaking funny. She likes him too. Now im mad. She said she loved me, she says she still does, but look at this! They like each other. All he wants is her body. He can't possibly appreciate her as herself. Besides the fact she's beautiful, shes also just wonderful in personality. I can see why anybody would like her. But i already told him that i love her! What is he thinking!

What should i do. I'm angry. I took a cold shower today because i needed to think straight, and i couldnt get distracted by the good feeling of warm water. But i needed to get clean anyway, so i took a freaking cold shower. I've got a huge dilemma. I'm moving! I wont see her for a month, then after that, i wont see her for a long time, if at all. I promised i'd come back for her, and i mean it. I love her so much. I really dont deserve her. I hope she just pities him, and doesnt really love him like she...

loves...

me...

punch your mate and set him straight?

If your mate wants her for her body tell her that, it'll make her think twice, if she doesnt belive you then she may be as shallow as he is an they'll end up breaking up because of personality conflicts.

Edited by (in order): Epi7aph, Epi7aph

No offense man, but it seems like you're obsessing over this girl, which is kind of scary. Love is a very strong word, exactly how old are you? Now don't think I asked that question because I think one is who young can't be in love, I'm 17 and I know how it goes, but younger people have less experience with the whole relationship thing. It's cool that you don't like this girl just for her body, but don't get too upset over her. I do think it's uncool that you're friend is going after this girl whom you already confessed to "loving." But if you're moving, it might be best not to establish a relationship with her. You seem kinda young, which means you still have many years to live and experience (as do I) and you may not have the same feelings for this girl 5 years down the road, especially if you won't be able to see who or go out with her. I know I didn't really say much while saying a lot, but I hope you got something out of it.

Naw man i get you. Its like your the other part of me talking right there. I just want to live an impossible dream.

Edited by: VegasTheWZAd

Well I'm glad you understand. Believe me, I've been in a few situations that were almost exactly the same. And in one I made the wrong choice. However, it's different for everyone. For some people, it could work out, for me, it ened up wasting 3 years of the life on my phone only to be pushed out of the scene by some mounty wannabe (yes, as in canadian mounty).

Dude that sucks. Sorry to hear that. Im trying to lessenmy phone time and make her call me more. Or i can just listen to maddox and neglect her, and all life, and play video games.

Man, i really hopes this works out.

You know, they do make dating sims.

ahh fuck it all, im going to bed.

Silent_shadow900 OUT!

declinsion wrote: You know, they do make dating sims.

I was just saying......

You should bust caps in his ass.

What should you do? Leave the drama in your life offline. Lol. I swear, this has happened plenty of times now.

But anyway, you should probably explain to him how you feel about her and that you're really into her and all that. He should realise that she isn't just another fish in the ocean. If not, then yes, please do bust caps in his ass.

Dude, my current situation is far worse than a mere tiff or love triangle. There's accusations of me pressuring her into sex flying about now, she's been lying to me (possibly about rape) and all kinds of shit.

Be honest with both of them, and it will sort itself out.

Thanks guys.
I need the feedback.

I threw mine of a 2 story balcony into rose bushes .. worked well.

Shit, i went out with a girl last year for about 6-7months... she was ok to begin with but then she just constantly lied - and they were so unbelievable and impossible lies... and i was near to breaking up with her anyway and then i found out for 2 of those months she'd been going out with a *friend* from my band - well ex-friend now and she was also engaged to some guy down scunthorpe - life is a fucked up place man...

Now im in a loving relationship for 9 months so far, we've had our fair share of arguments like everyone does... but you always know that everything will be ok whatever.

My advice is to tell your *friend* where to step off and show him the door. But its for you to decide whether the girls the one for you... is she your best friend? is she always there for you? and why would she like this other guy?

Its all up to you but good luck whatever you choose Silent.

ForK wrote: I threw mine of a 2 story balcony into rose bushes .. worked well.

Well I'll know never to say anything about you

Man, your right. I gotta put my foot down somewhere. Im gonna put her on a guilt trip. And he is going to have to back off.

Good to hear man. Don't let him walk all over you... if you do nothing he probably will.

NNOt mentioning the fact that im 6 foot 1 and hes almost 5 feet.

wtf is ur friend like 9? i liked that little ending lines thing, that was emo. your gonna hate my advice because its not really advice mo9re of a statement. Survival Of The Fittest - if your better for her than she'll take u if not she'll take him, you can't try make other peoples decisions for them even when they affect you.

you are now accepting advise from the internet from a bunch of people you dont know who don't know you

@jackson: "Stop Rape....Consent!"

@embers - don't push it. This is really not a good thing to get me started on, since I treat rape as a crime worse than murder. As far as I'm concerned, sex crimes rank with abuse of children as the lowest of the low and deserving of castration with a blunt soldering iron.

What does any of this have to do with Emo and rape?

@jackson

I don't know exactly what your situation is, but sounds like what happened to one of my friends recently. I think they're still doing an "investiagation" on it.