Game help needed Thread

I'm going to be honest: I've tried solving this one for about as long as I've had my computer. Every time I try to play a game (mainly flash) I have to go to the file itself, pull it to its bare components, and then use the biggest file. The only problem is: the biggest file doesn't include all of the data (cut-scenes, models, music, etc.). I think it has to do with what I play it in, but, I can't get anything beside adobe flash reader to work (I tried using flash player, but it only updates the one in browsers). If anyone can help me with this, I would greatly appreciate it.