Courtesy, yo. Put the shoe on the other foot: if I took your faith & good-will and I pushed the boundaries of our "tentative co-agreement(s)" just cos "no one explicitly said I couldn't do something to **** you off", why would you be okay with that?
I mean, isn't it similar to "you never said I couldn't flirt with your [married] mother, so even if I know it's likely to bother you, you never explicitly told me not to"; or "what do you mean 'it's common sense not to punch people in the nose'? What, so-what if you implied that it wasn't 'okay'--you never EXPLICITLY told me not to do it, so it's "Free Realestate", right? Wait... Why are you disowning me!?!", etc.
... It's called 'Common Sense' not because it's 'common' to have absorbed 'it' (this 'sense'), but because it's common to have come across [it]/'the sources of this sense' to absorb & learn from.
... It's common because it's abundantly available around us to study--so if you just want to turn your head away from it & learn nothing, then that's all on you & your choice alone.
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