The special item menu is experimental thing, may be removed later, The outlaw hideouts are not visible unless you pass by them, so look for them, 1 in each faction area, You will need to change your culture to "Player faction culture" when you have your own kingdom if you want to have your customize troops, talk with your chancellor. enjoy.
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Finnally a good alternative native mod... (y)
Been playing it a lot so far and im loving it